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My mother and father have it in for my associate and gained’t cease criticising her parenting

My parents have it in for my partner and won’t stop criticising her parenting


DEAR DEIDRE: THE children have been enjoying up and being a nightmare when my mother and father referred to as spherical to see me and my girlfriend.

There was an enormous row when Mum stated my girlfriend wasn’t coping with them correctly.

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We have now slightly woman collectively who’s two, my son from a earlier relationship who’s 5 and my girlfriend’s six-year-old son. My girlfriend is 27 and I’m 29.

That was simply after Christmas however my mother and father have nonetheless received it in for my girlfriend. They need me to go away her, refuse to speak to her and say she’ll by no means be allowed of their home.

What ought to I do? I don’t need to lose my mother and father or my girlfriend and children.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your precedence must be your kids. A blended household can take cautious thought and exhausting work to get proper.

Attempt to organise life so that you and your girlfriend every have one-to-one time along with your sons. Inform your mother and father you’re keen on them and hope they’ll come spherical to seeing you and your girlfriend are attempting your finest.

Do they actually need to reduce themselves off from their grandchildren? Discover assist by way of Household Lives (0808 800 2222, familylives.org.uk).


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